his quote made my heart leap. I know without a doubt, that Satan is seeking to destroy . . . families, our children, marriages, work relationships, friendships, churches, etc. Really, where is he not at work?
“Be self-controlled and alert. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”
I Peter 5:8
I’ve seen it in my family. Satan knows where my weaknesses are . . . fear is big and can cripple me, having me think of all the worst things that might happen. It pushes me to be in control . . . because I felt like I especially lost control five years ago when my son died. That is when Satan pushed my son over his fault line. He liked high thrill excitement. He thought he found it in the choking game. It took his life.
The last part of the quote above talks about exposing and confronting the cracks in our character. It’s why accountability is so important.
“Let the word of Christ dwell in you richly as you teach and admonish one another with all wisdom, and as you sing psalms, hymns and spiritual songs with gratitude in your hearts to God.” Colossians 3:16
I am thankful God is so much more powerful than the sin and Satan who is seeking and destroying. HE knows how to seal the cracks and beautify my character. God has released my husband and I from asking where we went wrong with the loss of our son. Possibly we could have done something different, but that time is gone. We have 10 children at home we still have a great responsibility for, and we continue sharing about how our son died to bring awareness. We are much more alert of what’s on TV, in movies, and what they can see on the internet. We ask questions . . . LOTS of questions, about their friends (another reason I use Facebook – I’ve learned a lot about my kid’s friends!). There’s big time accountability in many different aspects of their lives. And it’s not just with my children. We are working on it in our marriage. We know Satan wants to destroy our marriage. Saturday will mark our 25th anniversary. With tears I can say, by God’s grace we made it . . . and it’s still work. It’s work on communicating, forgiving, loving, not expecting changes in others, but asking God where “I” need to change. And there’s accountability in our communication. We ask each other questions . . . we share where things concern us. We try to be on a guard for each other, done in a gentle way (well, most of the time!)
I’m learning more and more how my relationship with God is about me and Him. I cannot be dependent on my husband, pastors, church, or friends to fulfill this. God speaks in that still small voice specifically to me when I listen and read His Word.
“Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting.”